RETREAT ETIQUETTE

Observing the following practices creates inner and outer peace and harmony and allows us to devote ourselves completely to the methods of meditation practice.

Silence

No talking, reading, writing, texting, sending emails, making phone calls, using various electronic devices, receiving guests, or interpersonal communication of any kind.

Cell Phones

We are now requiring all overnight retreatants to turn in their cell phones to the reception staff upon registration. Devices will be locked in a secure pouch, kept in your room throughout the retreat, and unlocked at the end of the retreat. In case of an emergency, your family and friends can reach DDRC staff by phone at (845) 744-8114.

Community Spirit

Stay together with the group practice and remain on the Retreat Center premises for the entire retreat. Heed all the instructions of the teacher and supervisors, and notify them if you need to be excused.

Schedule

Follow the set schedule and be on time for all activities. Do not shower before the morning wake-up call or after lights out time. Monitors will wake you in the morning; do not use an alarm clock.

Work Practice

Engage in a task to clean up our environment responsibly and learn to work wholeheartedly in mindfulness.

Environment

Help keep our indoor environment clean and tidy, including your personal sitting meditation place and bedroom. To conserve resources, turn off lights and water when not in use. When outdoors, be wary of ticks and keep out of the tall grass. Stay on the footpaths. Do not take or eat any food outside of the Dining Hall.

Meditation in Action

Walk and move with full awareness. Act mindfully and carefully, unhurried and peacefully. Help create an environment suitable for group meditation.

Attire

Wear modest and appropriate clothing, namely loose and comfortable clothes with neutral colors. Please wear long pants, short pants are not allowed. No form-fitting pants or tank tops. Do not use perfumes, colognes, or cosmetics.